No just no, husband and wife IS NOT AUTOMATICALLY BETTER than boyfriend and girlfriend
You don’t love your partner more than I love mine just because you are married. Marriage means nothing.
Friend of mine met this guy, 3 weeks later he bought her an engagement ring. 3 months later they got married. 4 months later he got drunk and had a threesome with another COUPLE. Now they are filing for divorce.
So no, stop. You aren’t automatically “more in love” just because you are married. Marriage doesn’t measure love. It’s just a tradition. Yeah, it’s got some rad financial benifits but that’s it. You can be completely totally in love with someone and not ever marry them. It’s possible. You may feel it’s nessisary to stand up in front of everyone in an expensive dress and repeat some vows in front of all your family and freinds. But me, I look at my boyfriend and say: “I love you more then anything and I always will.” and he takes my word for it.
That’s all that matters