if you don’t support feminism that supports women of colour, trans women, rich women, poor women, intelligent women, dumb women, skinny women, fat women, beautiful women and ugly women then you’re not a real feminist or feminist ally.
I’m probably going to get a lot of hate for making this but guess what? I don’t give a fuck. Because to me Stefan will always and forever be the better brother, the better boyfriend, and the better person compared to Damon. He has done so much for Damon and all Damon does is hurt him. He killed his best friend Lexi, he went after Elena for 3+ seasons without a care in the world. He did not care if it would hurt Stefan, all he cared about was “getting the girl” and sadly he succeeded. After everything Damon has done to Elena like not releasing her from the sire bond, killing her brother, hurting everyone she cares about, not letting her make her own decisions and basically being a horrible person she still ended up wanting to be with him. Look i get that Julie Plec writes this show & she lacks a lot of logic but it’s disgusting how Elena was forced to love Damon through a sire bond. Because prior to it, it was always Stefan. I don’t care what anyone says without the sire bond Elena wouldn’t have ended up loving Damon and “choosing” him. Moreover, I know Stefan has done some pretty bad things and I do not condone his actions or shrug it off like it’s nothing but the thing is he always tries to better himself and be a good person. He fights to be the best version of himself no matter what. Unlike Damon who refuses to change. He even told Elena that he won’t. His character development is the funniest shit I have ever seen on TV because what character development? Damon Salvatore has been a psychotic, impulsive, tantrum throwing, inconsiderate, obsessive, narcissistic, egotistical, rude 172+ man child for the past 4 seasons and I don’t see him ever changing. Finally, don’t care what you think of Stefan because I see the person he is. How he tries so hard to do the right thing, how much he loves Elena despite the hell she put him through, how he cares for her family and friends, and how he would die for his brother without hesitation. That is why he will always be the BEST choice between the two (Elena said so herself) and why Damon can never be half the man his younger brother is. Not even close.
One of the best things of SPN is what it get’s us talking about. Mythology. Religion. Family. What it takes to be family. And now there’s this new conversation, after eight seasons and more than 100 episodes, we get to talk about sexuality and how sexuality is very much a process, it’s not static. We get to see, whether you want to admit it or not, a main character question himself on such a basic and instinctive level. And it’s really great.