(…inue) This happens way too much to be coincidence. But I don’t have many friends and I can’t afford to lose them.
Please help /:
Answer: From the looks of it, you can’t afford to keep them either. It’s unfortunate, but if you have a kind heart - you’re going to come across people who will see this as a weakness, and they will take advantage of you until you’re empty, and then they will leave.
Don’t feel like these people are worth trying for, seek friends who see you as more than monetarily and momentarily valuable. Friends who would do for you, what you do for them. Mutually beneficial friendships.
I’m not saying it’s not okay to pitch in, or maybe once in a great while foot an entire bill somewhere. But not for people who expect it out of you, and who only see you as a piggy bank. That’s not a friend, that’s a leech.
You bring more value to a friendship than money, you will find people who really do appreciate you. xx