and that just makes me sad a lot

Recent observations n tingzzzz

Ive seen a few posts floating around the last couple of days and I just wanted to share my opinion of it.

A lot of people that haven’t met Taylor or don’t have a Taylor follow have expressed a sadness that they feel left out or ignored of the fandom and it’s really upset me.

I get a lot of messages every day but I always try and reply to as many as I can, and nearly always reply to them eventually, even if it takes me a while.

It makes me sad that people are leaving others out just because they’ve met Taylor and have a lot of followers.

Meeting Taylor doesn’t make you any better than anyone else. It’s an amazing thing to have happened but I think it’s wrong to shut people out once it’s happened and to only speak to people that have met her.

Anyways, my box is always open for anyone to chat to me if they want and I hope if you’re feeling left out, that people make you feel included and loved soon.

Treat people how Taylor would treat you, and the world would be a better place 💜

We moved last summer and I didn’t have a chance to really meet anyone in our new area because I went right back to campus afterwards. Unlike me, Aysha was able to make a lot of new friends because of her new high school and just being at home. When I came home, our new home, I was really nervous because all of my old friends who were also graduating and coming back were returning to our old community. So I felt kind of sad cause I was like damn no friends for Jaha. BUT. I made a lot of new friends and though some of them are younger than me it’s still pretty awesome. And next week I am going to start volunteering at the mosque right across the street. I am now excited. And with Ramadan right around the corner that means taraweeh at the mosque every night, bonding with more people as we motivate each other to stay awake and pulling each other up.

CAN’T WAIT.
#Making friends isn’t hard when you go to the masjid to pray fard.

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I love how Frankie loves us. I don’t know what I would do without him, I actually love him so much. Whenever I feel stressed, and sad, and just not in a good mood, he’s the only one that I can count on to make me happy. I watch a video of him, or read a tweet of his and I instantly get a smile on my face, no matter what is going on in my life. He never fails to do that to me. And that means more to me than anything ever will. This fandom makes me happy as well. I know there is a lot of drama, but when you see it, you know what you have to do. You have to shine brighter like Frankie says, and let them realize their faults. It’s YOU who makes the decision to be happy or not. It’s YOU, and not anyone else. So make the right choice.

Also, I’m not sure how, but Frankie has given me more confidence. I know now that whatever I do, no matter how crazy I am, no matter how bad i look that day, or how bad my outfit looks that day, or if someone doesn’t like me, I just think to myself, “if Frankie can deal with the haters, then so can I. He never lets his smile fade and always stays happy no matter what they’re saying or doing to try to hurt him” I find myself saying that, and i think that’s one of the most important things that he has taught me. To not let them affect you, cause you’re just perfect the way that you are.

I am so incredibly proud of him for all he has accomplished, and all he will accomplish, but there is one thing that I am the most proud of…

I am most proud to call Frankie Grande my idol. My loving, grateful, caring, happy, exited, sneaky, teasing, glittery, idol who never fails to make me and everyone he knows, a better person. I could never thank him enough for all that he has done for me. I will always be here for him, because I know that he will always be here for me. Others may not see it, but I sure do, and I am proud to say it. I couldn’t ever ask for a better role model. Frankie Grande is my idol, and I will never ever be ashamed to say that.

Thank you for everything Frankie.

In a weird way it’s motivating. But fear is something that holds me back a lot. The pendulum just kind of swings side to side so after I have periods of depression where I do hit rock bottom and feel extremely fearful, then I just know how horrible it is and eventually feel bored enough of the feeling that I feel extra motivated. And then it’s more like the fear of missing out on something totally outweighs the fear of what could happen if I take a risk. Fear is a motivator for me in that it makes me so sad to imagine looking back and just wishing that I’d gone for something more or trusted myself.
—  Tavi Gevinson, The Talks 
FEMINISM

im so fucking pissed last night i had a debate with two of my guy friends about feminism and i can’t fucking find things to say. They go about dissing feminism and criticizing it and they’ve even got to the point where they argued “NOT ALL MEN” and i dont know how to fight back???? i even felt a bit threatened to try to fight back because i dont have enough good points. idk what to do i feel like i should know a lot about feminism but when i say a point they have so many to argue back and say that feminism is just an overreaction by women and i got silenced… it’s like they dont even want to be educated about feminism… and it makes me sad

Sometimes Muslims can be so mean to each other it makes me sick. And very upset. Wallahi it’s the saddest thing. A majority of the Muslims are pocs and get enough crap as it is in the west. And you guys just torment the hell out of their lives. A lot of them are very strong and brush it off alhamdulillah but still. It just makes me really sad 😔

it honestly makes me so sad bc i know that ill never get noticed by taylorswift and she’ll never pick me to meet her bc ive loved her since 2007 she got me through a lot just listening to her music makes me happy i once drove 7 hours to go to a concert of hers bc it was the only place in 5 years i could get tickets everyone i know irl tells me i remind them of her i cant even explain all of this properly and just bc i dont send her 100 messages a day and i dont have a blog dedicated 100% to her shes never gonna follow me and shes never gonna know i exist it just makes me sad

I’ve had my ferret for over a year and a half now. I’ve had to deal with him getting his winter coat in the summer and getting adrenal disease. But what makes me the most sad is seeing how bored he is. He gets at least 5 hours out of his cage a day and I play with him all the time but a lot of times he doesn’t even want to play with me and just speed bumps or takes a lot of naps.

I know I need to get him a brother or sister, but my partner won’t allow it. I’ve told him about how he needs a friend because ferrets are social, but he keeps bringing up that another one will be double the cost and if the new ferret gets adrenal or some other disease as well it’ll cost even more money. I honestly think I have the adequate funds to take on another ferret (I even have a savings account with over a thousand bucks in it), but he still won’t let me get another one.

I might end up working overseas in a year or so, so my partner would have to take care of my ferret on his own for a while, so I can understand that he doesn’t want to take care of two ferrets by himself. I just want my ferret to be happy and healthy, and even though he’s being treated for his adrenal disease and gets fed the highest quality kibble he’s not happy. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know anyone else who has ferrets that he could be with except the lady at the ferret shelter but when I took him there he got bullied a lot and I really don’t think he’d be happy there. Any advice, fellow ferrents? Are there any other points I could bring up to my partner to convince him of getting another ferret?

Just to be clear: my partner is not actually stopping me from getting another ferret I just really want him on board before I adopt another one since I live with him and he will share responsibility. Sorry if the phrasing came off as abusive-y

emotionlly-unstxble asked:

I feel like dying and I don't know what to do, I never normally message people but it's gotten so bad. No one cares about me, they all leave me 😔

Heyyyy, don’t be sad 😞 I know things can be stressful and hard but you will eventually find someone wonderful who will stick around, you honestly just need to force yourself to get up and talk to people, do things, its hard I know but force yourself to be positive. Drink lots of water, exercise, go on a walk, read a book, go pick some flowers, listen to your favourite band, go be spontaneous - get a tattoo! Dye your hair! When ever I feel shitty about life/myself, I tend to dye my hair another bright colour as it makes me feel better about myself haha. Or take a nap. Sleep helps me feel better about stuff, also drawing too. Basically just do things that you enjoy which makes you feel a bit more positive about life. Don’t think about dying though. I know death seems pretty appealing at times and feels like the easier option but living isn’t always gonna be poop as long as you work at it. Living is tiring but you can do it, you’ll find someone along the way who will help. I mean, I’m always here if you need to speak to anyone! 😊

anonymous asked:

England headcanons please?

1. Arthur can actually speak fluent French, thanks to being forced to learn it (Normans! Monarchs continuing to use it as the language of the court for centuries after that!) but he often butchers it today just to annoy Francis. 

2. His deepest- but also most troubled- relationships are with his brothers. Forget 1776, it’s flesh-and-blood family that’s complicated and on his mind the most. There’s just no other people he’s known longer, and a lot of that history wasn’t pretty. 

3. Speaking of 1776 though, it’s something he and Alfred mostly laugh about nowadays or may make snide references to when they’re annoyed with each other. But it doesn’t drive any real wedge between them. 

4. He was utterly furious about it for a while, though. No sad pining, but more of a ‘how dare this boy raise a hand to me.’ Because, when you’re around a thousand years old or more? Alfred, who was not even then two centuries old? Just a baby, an infant, what does he know? How ungrateful.

5. Under that exterior of the proper gentleman who enjoys tea and poetry: a manipulative, cunning and ruthless man who ran the world’s largest known empire. He can swear up a storm, he’s not afraid of rolling up his sleeves to get his hands dirty- and can be disturbingly nonchalant about it. 

6. Major flaw: Paternalistic. Over-controllingA sort of cool and calculated, ‘This world is a shithole, and you ought to be thankful I deigned to extend my protection to you. Now behave yourself.’ At the same time, Enlightenment thinkers! Hobbes! Locke! Mills! He’s logical but is the sort who is dangerously capable of rationalising away his hypocrisy. Think O’Brien in Orwell’s 1984. War is peace. Doublethink

7. Though nowadays, of course, he’s changed to an extent. Perspective sure shifts a lot when you’re no longer the biggest fish in the pond. He’s not exactly proud of a lot of things he did anymore, but all the same, he’s the sort who finds it hard to admit it. Also, old habits die hard…

8. Doesn’t cry easily. Finds it exceedingly important to keep up the appearance that Everything is Fine when things have gone to hell. Especially when things have gone to hell. (‘Nonsense, frog. What are but a few bombs? For all that talk of his, has he actually dared to cross the Channel to finish what he started?’ ) Stiff upper lip. Keep calm and carry on etc. 

9. ‘Our most dear enemies’: After his brothers, it’s Francis who he’s known for the longest. They’ve killed each other innumerable times the past thousand years and are the sort who will talk about it with a type of macabre casualness while having a candlelit dinner to celebrate the Entente Cordiale. (‘Remember when I routed you at Waterloo?’ ‘Remember when I routed you and your entire language changed?’ ‘I would stab you with this steak knife, but we’re in public and it’d be too much of a bother to explain why you don’t stay dead.’ ‘Je t'aime, rosbif.’

10. If a zombie apocalypse ever broke out, he’d have no problems taking off their heads with the antiques hung on the walls of Windsor Castle. 

hi guys! ok so it’s no secret that season two and especially the season finale was a low blow for skyeward and it seems more and more likely that the writers just doesn’t care about them anymore what so ever and only really created them for shock value  (╯_╰) hence i’ve been seeing a lot of people giving up on them and while i can’t blame them at all it makes me really sad since the skyeward fandom is so beautiful and i still love ward and skye and the idea of them together so so much! so i was thinking now that it’s hiatus anyway let’s gather troops and just like reminisce about old times in the form of an appreciation week yay! so here’s the guidelines:

you can make gifs, edits, graphics, picspams etc honestly whatever you like.

day 1 (monday 18th of may): favorite scene

day 2 (tuesday 19th of may): favorite overall quote (could be one that isn’t from aos but just reminds you of their relationship) 

day 3 (wednesday 20th of may): favorite moment of physical contact (kiss, hug, whatever)

day 4 (thursday 21st of may): favorite humorous moment 

day 5 (friday 22nd of may): favorite moment of either ward/skye or both being affected by one another (worried, happy, protective, talking about each other etc)  

day 6 (saturday 23rd of may): favorite parallel 

day 7 (sunday 24th of may):  favorite emosh moment

thats basically it tbh i really hope yall participate, please reblog this, spread the word and remember to tag your posts with #skyewardweek 


anonymous asked:

Hey I saw on twitter you said something about spoken word making you sad and stuff, does that mean you are not doing any in the near future?

i’m still writing here and there, i just don’t have it in me to record any spoken word tracks right now. if i’m being honest, yeah, spoken word does make me sad.

i’m also afraid that when i release the spoken word album you guys are going to expect a lot of songs like you said okay and i really have no interest in doing that at the moment. not to sound dramatic, but recording you said okay hurt. it actually hurt a lot, both physically and emotionally. i wasn’t in a good place when i recorded that song, i wasn’t eating enough and between every take i’d have to stop recording because i’d start having a panic attack. for days after recording the song i walked around feeling like someone had beat the shit out of me, every little muscle between my ribs was sore from screaming. i hated it.

i guess i’m just not in the mood right now, i’ve got an EP about to come out and two full lengths that are like halfway recorded each. i’m trying to focus on those.

precious-alien-princess asked:

Not happy with the new Harley either. Glad to know I'm not alone in this.

I’m sure a lot of people are unhappy with it. I’m sure a lot of people ARE happy with it! It makes me a bit sad, but not terribly so - I’m so used to seeing that character redesigned in increasingly terrible ways over the last 5 years that it’s not really surprising. Just… expected.

I like Margot Robbie a lot. Who knows. The movie could be surprising. I just don’t have super high hopes, is all.

(OK if you want any kind of real anger it’s over her dumb sneaker heels and those AWFUL tattoos and - shit! NO! Kate, be chill!)

75 Truths From How I Met Your Mother.

1. Nothing good ever happens after 2 a.m.
2. Suit up!
3. Accept all challenges.
4. Don’t underestimate the power of a good wingman (or woman).
5. You’re never too old for a game of laser tag.
6. Don’t get a tattoo when you’re drunk or feeling emotional, or both.
7. People who are texting or sitting at the bar are most likely in relationships.
8. It’s not easy to stay friends with everyone from college.
9. But cherish the friends who mean a lot to you.
10. Your drunk ideas aren’t always your best ideas.
11. When you get sad, just stop being sad and be awesome instead.
12. “The longest pause you will ever experience in your life is the one that follows asking the question: will you marry me?”
13. Make sure whoever you’re casually dating isn’t included in group photos at special events.
14. Everyone has their own special remedy for a hangover.
15. Make sure you don’t just think, think, think and you also do, do, do.
16. You’ll probably be really happy if you marry your best friend.
17. And if you can’t agree on a last name, just call yourself the “Awesomes.”
18. Don’t shy away from your past. Even if it’s embarrassing — like being an 80’s Canadian pop star — your friends will still love you.
19. “We all make stupid decision…but time can take a stupid decision and turn it into something else entirely.”
20. Don’t bring your annoying significant other on trips with your friends.
21. Learn to accept your friends’ annoying significant other for who they are.
22. If you get along with your best friend’s significant other, life will be exponentially better.
23. Dating people in your friend group can get messy and complicated.
24. But sometimes it can lead to a happy, loving relationship.
25. There’s no such thing as a “girly looking” drink — men can drink Margaritas, too.
26. You don’t need to know exactly what you want to do — its OK to change your mind.
27. You should “hold out for someone who doesn’t just tolerate your little quirks but actually kind of likes them.”
28. If you run away on your wedding day, it’s polite to leave a note.
29. It’s not entirely unheard of to have an identity crisis and move across the country.
30. Pursue the career path and profession you’re passionate about.
31. Being in a relationship that challenges you can be constructive, but also exhausting.
32. You shouldn’t be constantly fighting with your significant other — relationships aren’t supposed to be that difficult.
33. Unrequited love sucks, but it happens.
34. Don’t have sword fights with your best friend.
35. Surround yourself with people who support your work and ideas.
36. Sometimes, life will throw you curveballs that you have no control over.
37. “You can let your anger go, and only when you do that is it really gone and you can move forward.”
38. You never know when you can end up losing your job.
39. But the silver lining is it could lead to other amazing opportunities.
40. Have a job that allows you to travel a lot and see the world.
41. As long as it doesn’t involve taking the overnight shift.
42. Always break up with someone before you try to hook up with someone else.
43. A Hanging Chad isn’t the best Halloween costume.
44. Dating your psychologist generally isn’t a good idea.
45. Be careful of monkeys at the zoo — they can steal your wallet.
46. Before you buy a house and commit to a mortgage, make sure it’s not built crooked.
47. Law school takes a lot of work, time, and effort.
48. High-fives are the best way to show your friends affection.
49. Be loyal to your loved ones, but don’t feel like you need to follow a strict set of rules, otherwise known as the “Bro Code.”
50. Sometimes,the universe conspires against you.
51. Befriend your regular bartender — they might even throw you the keys to the place sometime.
52. If you find a good burger place, write down the address.
53. Making bets about your friends’ futures is only OK if they never find out.
54. If you find a good apartment, keep it in your friend group.
55. And when you do need to find a new place, start by asking people you know.
56. Try to stay upbeat when someone asks you to make a speech at their wedding.
57. If your wedding day isn’t going the way you want it to, make it perfect in your own way.
58. Always be willing to entertain your childhood friend when they come to town.
59. “Sometimes you fall for someone you’d never expect, but that doesn’t make it wrong.”
60. You don’t need to move to a whole new city to start your life over.
61. But sometimes a change of scenery can help give you just the right perspective you need.
62. Owning a bar is way more of a hassle than you and your friends might think.
63. “The one” may not necessarily exist because sometimes you get more than one chance at real love.
64. Working with your friends can be a really fun way to pass the time.
65. Be mature enough to give your ex-relationships closure.
66. And don’t lie about your identity to get someone to sleep with you — it’ll definitely catch up with you.
67. Don’t rub it in your ex’s face when you’ve moved on.
68. “Whatever you do in this life, it’s not legendary unless your friends are there to see it.” 69. “The future is scary but you can’t just run back to the past because it’s familiar.”
70. Abandoned umbrellas are always up for grabs.
71. “When you find someone you want to keep around, you do something about it.”
72. If you try hard enough, you might be able to actually make it rain.
73. Every moment that you’re living eventually turns into a memory and, therefore, an epic story.
74. “Love is the best thing we do.”
75. Your story is never really finished.

okay.. the ending for chaos theory was insane

and I love love love blue haired punk chloe

but.. a lot of people aren’t really to happy with “wheel chair” chloe

I KNOW being handicapped sucks

but could you imagine max saving arcadia bay with “handicapped chloe”

chloe being just as resourceful and DETERMINED AF

chloe overcoming her disability because she has love in her life and so many other good things she didn’t have before

its just some people see chloe being disabled as her not being able to help max or be as crucial of a character in the next episode and that makes me kinda sad?? my dad is disabled and he will get shit done while im fucking useless

disabled people are not useless, they are so capable and I will FIGHT ANYONE WHO FUCKING DISRESPECTS

I mean I just think chloe being disabled should not really change the main objective and max’s (potential) feelings towards her

DISABLED CHLOE NEEDS MORE LOVE OKAY??

You cheat on Sam with Jack part 2

Requested: Yes

Word Count: 1092

Story line: After having a fight with Sam, you turned to your best friend Jack and you realize you have feelings for him, as he does to you too, and things get heated.

A/N: Huge, huge, huge credit to my favorite person, Ali for writing/helping me out with this :). She wrote this a long, long time ago for me ( I’m late posting this *sad face*) but I just added more things to make it a little longer. I hope you guys enjoy! Don’t forget to leave requests!! p.s this is my first smut so please don’t judge me lol it probably sucks but a lot of people wanted a smut so :):):):):) 

Jack kept leaving sloppy kisses along your neck, gently sucking on your sweet spot. Your fingers found their way to Jack’s messy hair, gently running them through it. He put his hands under shirt, leaving them resting on your stomach. You hurriedly took off your shirt. Leaving yourself in just your bra and jeans. He looked at you in awe and gave you a quick peck on the lips. “You’re so beautiful.” You gave him a small, yet encouraging smile.

He started leaving a trail of sloppy kisses down your stomach until he reached the hem of your jeans. Looping his fingers through the holes where your belt belonged. “Can I?” He said in a low voice, and you gave him a small nod, letting him know that it was okay. He started unzipping your jeans. You slowly lifted your butt up off the couch, as he started gently taking your jeans off, along with your underwear, down your legs. Making yourself bare underneath him. 

He placed his large hands on your stomach, slowly making his way where you wanted him the most, he started spreading your thighs apart. He slowly entered one finger inside of you, causing you to let out a small moan. He began pumping faster, and his mouth collided with yours. The both of you started giving each other sloppy kisses. He kept thrusting his finger in and out and you knew that you were already about to reach your high. You had to bite your lip to keep yourself from screaming and moaning his name out. “It’s okay baby girl. I want to hear you scream my name.” Hearing those words made you lose it, and you screamed his name out. 

He stopped at just the right time, taking his finger out of you, not letting you reach your high. “Jack, what the hell.” You looked at him with fury in your eyes. He just chuckled at you. You sat up with a grin on your face, thinking of teasing him the same way.

You got up, leaving Jack sitting on the couch. Your shaky hands took off his shirt, and revealed his toned abs. You ran a finger up and down his stomach, biting your lip seductively. “Your such a tease babe.” He said, while he started biting his lip as well. You started unzipping his pants, pulling them down, including his boxers, revealing his already hard length. Your hands ran up his thighs. Wrapping your hands around him and began pumping him up and down. He let out a throaty moan, “Oh my God.” You loved seeing him like this. Knowing that you were causing him to be this weak, by just touching him like this. You placed your mouth on the tip of his length, and began swirling your tongue. Gently sucking on it as well. His eyes and head rolled back in pleasure, and he kept letting out small moans. His chest heaving up and down. This was making the feeling in your stomach grow, and you needed him right now, more than ever. You could tell that he was almost at his high, so you decided to do what he did to you, and stopped sucking. His head shot up and looked at you, the same way you looked at him when he did the same actions a few moments ago. “You’re gonna be the death of me y/n.” You gave him a small laugh.

You stood up in front of him and put either of your legs between his. He looked at your chest and back at your face. His fingers made his way behind your back, leaving them where the back of your bra met. “Sorry babe, but this gots to go.” He quickly unhooked your bra, sliding it off of you and throwing it behind you. He gently pecked each of your breasts and doing wonders to them. 

After playing with them for awhile he quickly flipped you guys so he was now hovering over you. Supporting himself with his elbows, that were beside your head. You pushed away all your thoughts of your boyfriend, Sam, to the back of your head making you forget about him, and focused on this moment right now with this beautiful boy. Jack started kissing you again, making his tongue enter your mouth immediately.

You quickly pulled away, making him confused. “You have a condom, right?” He pressed his forehead against yours and laughed. “Shit, I forgot about that, but yes I do.” He reached for his pants and took one out of his back pocket of his jeans. Hearing the packet of foil being ripped open made you really excited. You saw him roll the condom on his length and started laughing as you can tell he was very eager to hurry up. “Someone’s eager.” He looked at up at you and you winked at him. “Shut up.” He said playfully and placed his lips on yours again, making the kiss heated once again.

Jack started to enter you with no warning, and began thrusting at a very slow place. Making this moment special for the both of you. You placed your hands on his biceps. Every time you moaned his name, his thrusts got faster and faster. Your fingernails started to dig into his back and he kissed you roughly on the lips. Both of you started leaving small moans in between your kisses. He knew your high was coming by the way your heat started clenching around his length. “Let go baby girl. It’s okay, I’ve got you.” He left a kiss on your forehead as you released your high around him. You eyes scrunched up and your mouth formed an “O”. He started thrusting sloppy as his came quickly after, putting his head in the crook of your neck as he started panting hard. Your fingers found their way to the back of his head again and you slowly massaged it. After staying still inside you for a few moments, he pulled out and collapsed beside you. The both of you laid there, breathing heavily. You turned to your side so you were facing him, as he did the same. “I bet Sam’s never made you feel that good.” He quirked his eyebrows up. You gave him a smile, “Nope, not even close.” And kissed him. Loving the taste his lips on yours. You just couldn’t get enough of him. This moment made you realize that you really wanted to be with him more than anything in the world.