You need to take a step back, critically assess your attachment to porn and most importantly, stop thinking about yourself and your own orgasms.
Anti-porn activisim is not about you and it is not about how you can continue to consume (mostly) women as a commodity free of guilt. If you feel guilty about consuming mainstream porn - you should.
But don’t you dare rack up the nerve to ask me about alternatives. This is not because I think sex is wrong, that masturbation is wrong or that sexual exploration is wrong. It is because I do not, for a second, want to draw attention away from the mass abuse that is occurring within the mainstream sex industry right now. That’s not what I am here for and that is not why I am doing this.
People are being raped, beaten, coerced and abused. 12 year olds are learning that physically and verbally violent sex is ‘normal’ and ‘to be expected.’ Sex trafficking still exists, child trafficking still exists, sexual slavery still exists, women are still being bought and sold as commodities and still do not have full bodily autonomy and you are asking about porn alternatives?
There’s a lot more to this issue than me telling you to go read a vanilla manga for the sake of your guilty conscience.
Think critically. And don’t draw attention away from the atrocities that are happening every single day in the porn industry.
These women’s lives come first; your precious orgasms come second.