So like I was explaining to my class the other day why I don’t do youtube anymore and I only do tumblr. I said it was because I have way more followers on tumblr than I ever had on youtube and I like the tumblr community a lot more on a personal level. Then they asked how many followers I have and I said 4.5k+ (at the time) and they lost there shit, I never told them my tumblr user but I think they are still trying to find my blog and one day they will find me. And that will be the end of days for this blog, I actually don’t know what will happen.
i just started dating a man again for the first time since coming out to a lot of friends (i saw a lot of different people since then and most were women or gender non-conforming) and now i've already had two friends say something like "i thought you were gay?" and it feels terrible, like they never actually got that part of my identity. how do i nicely hammer home that i'm still bi regardless of the gender of my current partner?