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Me as a parent in the future.

I cannot say that I will be the most wonderful mom in the world that time. Still, I have my flaws and weaknesses. I cannot say that I will be a perfect mom to my kids because there’s no such thing in this world. But I have a saying if you do believe that you could be almost perfect then maybe. But all I know is that I will love my kids so much more than my husband.. more than myself. They are like my jewels, no, they are more than jewels that I will cherish, treasure and protect from anyone. They are my everything. They complete me. So I will try my best to be an almost perfect mom to them. I will always be there to give the support they need. I will make them laugh when they feel sad. I will comfort them when they are afraid. I will be their best friend who will listen to their problems and secrets. Maybe there will be times that I will get mad and scold them but I just have to do it to make them realize what is wrong or not. But in the end of the day, I will be sorry for getting mad and scolding them. That’s how lovable mom I will be. I’m a mom at the same time, a best friend.

They don’t have to experience what I’ve already experienced.

I will make sure that my kids will never experience what I already experienced. I just want them to have a peaceful, happy and comfortable life. I don’t want them to suffer at early age. I just want them to be with their friends playing stuffs and that. I don’t want them to feel sadness, about family issues. Family issues are so mainstream. Let’s stop that. I want to give my kids a complete and strong family. I don’t want them to feel alone, most especially when they are at times of trouble. I just want them to be a better person when they grow up.

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  • Si daddy na laging nandyan para sakin.
  • Si daddy na lagi kong kakampi.
  • Si daddy na proud na proud sakin.
  • Si daddy na laging nagtatanggol sakin.
  • Si daddy na hindi ako pinapabayaan.
  • Si daddy na nagta-trabaho kahit Sunday para maging maayos buhay namin.
  • Si daddy na laging tinutulungan ako sa mga assignments.
  • Si daddy na lagi akong binibilan ng kung ano ano.
  • Si daddy na katabi ko matulog kasi hindi ko kaya mag-isa.
  • Si daddy na mahal na mahal ko.


Happy father’s day daddy! Una sa lahat, thank you dahil kahit gano ako kakulit hindi mo ako pinapabayaan. Alam kong madami akong kalokohan sa buhay pero hinahayaan mo ako i-enjoy buhay ko. Yung pagttrabaho mo kahit Sunday, naappreciate namin yan ng sobra. Tapos yung pagka-over protective mo sakin, kitang kita yan. Naiintindihan ko naman kahit minsan nawawalan ka ng time lalo na pag Saturday, kasi busy ka. Para samin din naman yun eh. Ikaw din yung nagturo sakin na wag ako magpapa-api kung kani-kanino. Ikaw yung nagturo sakin na ipaglaban ko yung sarili ko lalo na kung alam kong tama ako. Ikaw yung nagturo sakin na i-appreciate ang mga ginagawang bagay para sakin, maliit man o malaki. Ikaw din ang nagturo sakin na kapag may umaway sakin, awayin ko din. Hahaha. Ang dami kong natutunan sayo daddy, lahat naman yun gagawin ko eh. Basta ba nandyan ka para sakin. Alam ko masyado akong dependent sa iba, wala eh bata pa ako. Sorry kung may pagka-gago ako. Sorry kung nasasagot kita o kaya si mommy, sorry. Kasi minsan nawawala ako sa sarili ko pag naiinis ako okaya sobrang pagod. Sorry kung hindi ko pinsabi sainyo ni mommy na nagcollapse ako nung summer kasi ayoko naman mag-alala kayo. Sorry kung minsan, sakit ako sa ulo. Sorry sa lahat. Hindi ako nagsisisi na ikaw naging daddy ko. Laking pasalamat ko sa Dyos kasi ikaw ang naging daddy ko, kasi hindi mo ko pinapabayaan. Kasi mahal na mahal mo ako kahit sobrang isip bata ako, kahit may pagka-gago ako at kahit madami akong kalokohan sa buhay. Alam kong kulang pa ito para pasalamatan kita, pero eto lang magagawa ko eh. Pag lumaki ako, ako naman yung nandyan para sainyo ni mommy. Happy father’s day daddy, I love you. <3

Károly Brocky’s Mother and Child

What kind of Mother would I be?

Bilang magulang? Actually nahirapan ako sagutin yung tanong na to kasi una sa lahat hindi ko pa nakikita ang sarili ko bilang isang magulang. Naisip ko lang siya when I read this question.

Siguro mag-fo-focus ako sa attitude at outlook about life ng magiging anak ko.I wanna be a parent of a child who knows how it is to fight for his/her right if she/he knows that her/his reason is correct.

I want to be extra super duper close with my child. Yung kapag happy, sad, stressed, or depressed siya, he/she can open up to me. Yung tipong we can talk about it as friends. Kapag may misunderstanding, at medyo off-reasoning ako, gusto ko yung anak ko yung tipong kayang sabihing hey Momma, you’re wrong, tapos uupo kami sa table and we will talk about it. Ako siguro yung tipo ng parent na hindi agad magagalit, i’ll listen first sa anak ko why he/she did whatever it is then doon ko ibi-base yunga advice na pwede ko maibigay sa kanya. I will be strict, but I’ll let her/him experience real life, how it is to stumble and fall and have the courage to stand up and go back to the track. I’ll let him/her be his/herself, I won’t impose anything that will alter her/him. I just want him/her to be true and to be intelligent not only in school but more importantly, be wise in life and in his/her feelings.

Ako yung parent na gagawin ang lahat para ma-fulfill ng anak ko yung dream niya para sa sarili niya hindi yung dream ko para sa kanya.

I wont be a perfect Momma, but I’ll try my best to bring up a perfectly normal kid.

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Post something about what kind of parent you would want to be in the future. 

Gusto ko yung Cool mom. Yung sunod sa uso nila. XD Yung susopportahan  ko yung anak ko sa kahit anong ginagawa nya pero may pag ka-strict mom din para madisiplina ko yung anak ko at ayokong mapariwara buhay nya dahil sa kapabayaan ko tsaka di naman lahat ng oras magpapacool ako kasi bawat araw at oras magbabago pero di naman super strict, strict lang ako sa mga pangaral siguro pero gusto ko tropa tropa chill. Hahahahahaha gusto kong maranasan ng anak or mga anak ko itinuro ko kung paano magdasal at may takot sa diyos at gusto kong maranasan ang magkaroon ng mabuting ina. Lahat gagawin para sakanila magsasakripisyo masiguradong ligtas sila.