7. biggest turn off(s)
people who are highly judgemental, unforgiving, stubborn, impatient, uptight, dishonest or hypocritical. cruelty for cruelty’s sake. short-sightedness and being dismissive rather than curious and open-minded about shit.
and I cannot fucking stand people who force their perfectionism onto others or find others inferior or just at fault for not living up to their own standards of who people should be. basically people who believe others exist to serve their ideals, standards, belief system etc rather than individuals in their own right whose differences or flaws are worth being understood rather than being written off entirely.
and arrogant or judgemental or needy/co-dependant or entitled or overly negative people fucking grind my gears oh my god