Okay so this is gonna be a bit of a rant and me rambling about shit so feel free to skip or whatever.
Okay so, SJW’s.
I am conflicted on sjw’s.
On the one hand, they make very good and important points. Often about sexism, raicms, homophobia, transphobia etc. etc. that I very much agree with, I agree that these are horrible things that we should just end.
But SJW’s way of doing things, really pisses me off.
For people who say they want equality, and claim they are nice and accepting you are very fucking stubborn, never actually LISTENING to what people on the opposite side have to say.
Now, I’m not saying for things like racism, homophobia/transphobia.
But usually feminism or sexism.
Sexism is really, really REALLY fuckin stupid. Treating another sex badly or as inferior to you is just plain stupid and wrong.
SJW’s you have no problem doing it.
OH YEAH IM TALKING ABOUT MEN HERE
look, I know women have it rough. Far worse then men do I freely admit.
I’m a guy, and I know, that what i go through, is crap but women tend to go through a lot more and I admit that.
However that does NOT justify acting like the biggest assholes to people.
You assume that men can not HAVE problems based on there sex, that we live in a perfect golden palace where everything is great and wonderful and we never face any problems.
Men have privilege. I know that but why does that mean we can’t have problems?
Why does that make us acceptable targets for harsh and cruel comments claiming we have no right to complain!?
Why are we automatically seen as evil in the eyes of everyone here?
We need to be seen as strong! We need to be seen as powerful and we cant be allowed to show emotion or our peers will mock us.
We cant express a desire for anything feminine or girly or we are seen as “fags”.
No one would beleive us if we told them a woman beat us up, a court of law certainly would favor the woman in this endeavor in the case of violence against your spouse.
Again, I KNOW women have it harder but for crying out loud will you just LISTEN to what people have to say?
I’m not saying that men are saints, but they are also not fucking evil like tumblr makes us out to be.
We can be stupid. We can make idiotic mistakes but so can EVERYONE.
Male, female, gender neutral etc.
But WHY is it acceptable to call us as nothing but a group of hulking neanderthals with no respect for women?
Why are we constantly being bombarded with messages saying “YOU CANT HAVE AN OPINION YOUR MALE”
Like, just treat people like you want to be treated.
If you meet a guy who does not share your views, calmly discuss it. If upon this discussion you learn he is an unrepentent douche bag then yeah okay fuck that guy.
But instead of generalizing people why don’t you remember that we are all human and should treat each other equally.
With respect. Male, Female. Black, White, Asian, Brown. Gay, STraight, Bisexual, Pansexual or Trans.
Just treat each other with respect.
If some guy acts like a cunt then rip him a new one, but don’t lump us all with him.