oh hun, i’m so sorry! its such a terrible thing to happen to someone😢
i have, yeah, but i found out a while later, after we’d broken up, so it didn’t hurt nearly as much as you must be hurting right now😰
ok, my advice:
if you want to end things, don’t feel like you shouldn’t just because he might beg you to stay or if he keeps pleading with you to stay with him & tells you he won’t do it again. (cheaters often cheat again) but if you want to stay in the relationship, that’s fine too, just remember that you need to think of wht YOU need right now, ok babe? You’re hurting and upset and you need to take care of yourself for right now, alright? don’t worry about talking to him or making the next move until tmr, you deserve a night to just be.
it sounds like you are rightfully upset by this, as you are entitled to be, so for the time being, maybe curl up at home with some tea and watch a movie or read a book? talking it out with a close friend or family member might help too, but don’t close yourself off…please don’t hun, i know it can hurt like a fucking bitch, but don’t keep it all inside and bottle up the feelings and thoughts you’re having right now..you are fully entitled to feel everything you could possibly feel and think whatever you may be thinking.
and remember, you don’t owe him anything. you do you & be that brave and beautiful and amazing person the world knows you are!😚i hope you don’t feel sad for too long, babe, you’re amazing & gorgeous & soo soo wonderful!! have a restful night, feel free to message me anytime, love😘 xo