I personally think that for guys it’s easier to find a girl without being a society’s definition of attractive because girls are not that shallow. For me - looks are nothing. You could look like Channing Tatum, I wouldn’t care if you would have a shitty personality. I recently watched Tinder social experiments on youtube (which proves that women are not THAT shallow) and I remembered my past experiences with guys. When I started using makeup, losing weight, I became more ‘’atractive’’ or whatever, and I suddently started receiving attention from guys. My personality never changed tho. ‘’Wow, you’re so cool, why haven’t we talked before?’’ Well, because when I looked certain type of way (chubby, no makeup etc.) you were even ashamed to stand next to me, soo.. Even my boyfriend said that if he met me before I changed, he wouldn’t even talk to me. BUT I only changed my appearance. Ishh. Just my thoughts.