I get it.. I understand the situation. But as of right now in my life, I’m chillin. I’m going to school and soon, soon I’ll be working and get my life together you know. My parents help me a lot and they support me. But as of right now they are getting really irritated with us. They are over all our shit. The thing that I understand is that at 20 I am living with my parents but I am still trying to pull my life together.. I help out as much as I can and that’s good. When they were 20 they were having me after my two other brothers and they had a house. I don’t have any kids (for the fact I’m gay and out) I don’t have any responsibility other than cleaning and going to school. I don have a partner like my mom did. My mom had my dad and my dad had my mom. I have my mom and dad right now. Even if I had a partner I wouldn’t be able to help him. I could but right now a partner and a temporary job isn’t in my plans. Im working on my FUTURE HUNTY! If the right man comes along and becomes the love of my life. Then cool but know he’s not going to stop me from pursuing my career.
My parents are trying to hint us “it’s over with supporting you, you guys are grown up” I get it but at the same time I don’t. Let me do the whole school and job and get great experience I need. Then I can go. I don’t have friends on the weekends I drink and hang out with my parents. Quite frankly I don’t care to have friend because every one now a days are either boring, fake, waste of time, or bricks under my feet pulling me back. If they see the big picture they are the only ones I have. I don’t want to sound like a victim I’m just saying “if you drop me it’ll hurt me and you’ll just be like all the other people in my life” .
I believe that God takes away the poison but if he lets my parents make the decision of “we care about us and not our sons” then the only choice is to become like them “sad with bills” lol jk but I just need them.