well tbh anon i dont rly know how to help because i personally have never suffered from that particular affliction (i’d like to thank god and also jesus btw) the best I can tell you to do is to be careful and dont be too invested in the dude bc the problem wit stannin problematic ppl is that will disappoint you and after a while your gonna get tired of it.
like for instance wit chanope i was never interested in him bc i just never got his appeal, and seeing him be rude over and over again just rly turned me off even more so thats how i evaded the thirst.
over all tho i knw its hard when u like someone who is problematic™ we all have that one fave who we like despite the fact they are shyty in some way (like rly i am in this same boat) so just keep ya feels light and eventually u wont have them anymore.
now if u want instant results my deacon makes house calls so if you give me your info ill send him over, no need to thank me im just doing my part like the woman of god i am.
Stay blessed anon.