Can people who aren’t attracted to women stop dictating what men should and shouldn’t find attractive about women, specifically in this instance, breasts? Also, do they realise that men aren’t the only people attracted to women? Those posts I see that are all about how ‘men over-sexualise women’s bodies by glorifying sacks of fat on their chests’ really annoy me (besides the fact that breasts are not just sacks of fat). I’m a lesbian, and breasts are unbelievably amazing and they make me sexually aroused when I see them. That’s not because ‘men have told me breasts are attractive, rah rah, internalised misogyny’. It’s because I find them hot as hell, and I have been drawn to them for as long as I can remember. You can’t pick what attributes you find attractive. Each person finds certain physical and personal attributes that they find attractive, as well as unattractive. It’s biology and it’s all part of having a sex drive. Stop dictating what is and isn’t okay to find sexual about a woman, particularly when you yourself aren’t actually attracted to that sex to begin with.