*csa

I’m really fucking creeped out by sexual art depicting infantilized women or sexualized children. If she has the face of a five-year-old and she’s posing in a provocative way or wearing skimpy lingerie, I don’t care that you gave her improbably huge breasts, something is wrong here. (It’s even worse when she’s in an “innocently and naively displaying herself” pose or wearing clothing typically worn by children, like a school uniform.)

It literally makes me feel physically ill to see things like that, and I don’t give a fuck if this is kink shaming. If your idea of sexy is “looks like a little girl” SOMETHING IS WRONG.

anonymous asked:

i'm a survivor and read that "70% of abused children turn into abusive adults". i'm terrified of turning into an abuser, but... i cant find a source for that claim - do you happen to know if its true?

http://www.tencentticker.com/somethingterrible/

That’s a comic.

But I feel like you might relate to it.

anyway, it has been commonly spouted that most abusers are abused people growing up.

but the truth is?

there’s no stats to back that up.

Not only do most abused children not grow up to be abusers? Most abusers aren’t abuse victims.

Do some abuse survivors go on to be abusers? yes. There are a couple of things that go into that a. not admitting what you went through was wrong and that it’s just what people do. (aka Dad hit me so it’s okay for me to hit my kids. Every family does it, it’s just not supposed to be talked about.) and also- refusing to look at our own actions and realize when they may be hurting others. Usually this isn’t even a super conscious thing? But some abuse survivors will go on to be abusive because they’re not coping and in not coping they hurt others and when confronted about their behavior it’s just ‘I can’t even deal with my own shit and you want me to deal with yours.’ (my sister was one of those.)

But it’s definitely not most of us.

anonymous asked:

Is it weird that crying about it feels good? I have a hard time crying or expressing emotions because I wasn't allowed to while the csa was going on. Now when I can cry, which is rare, it feels good, is that strange?

Crying can be a really good thing, it can be really cathartic and a good way to express feelings that tend to stay bottled up. 

There’s absolutely nothing strange about crying feeling good. 

It just fucking amazes me that y’all spew shit like “It’s fiction!! It doesn’t matter!! Nobody thinks this is okay in real life!!!” when half of y’all are like “13 and 14 year olds can consent to sex with adults!! They’re old enough to make their own decisions!!”

When NO. NO. THAT IS SO WRONG. PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM CHILDREN. 

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ISS  Pictures/News Update 2./3. May 2015

https://data2364.wordpress.com/2015/05/03/iss-bildernews-update-2-3-mai-2015/

tumblr is like a breeding ground for pedophiles because there is no adequate block feature or way to stop people from lurking in minors selfie tags or sending them inappropriate messages there are so many nasty, greasy, worthless adults trying to form relationships with naive kids on this site because editing this site enough to protect minors from sexual predators isn’t too important to the staff.

be very, very careful young ones, and don’t hesitate to ever message me if you’re being harassed by adults because you should have the right to post your selfies and your thoughts and whatever the hell you want without worrying about some 24 year old loli fetishist blowing up your askbox.

Malawi has passed a law banning child marriage, raising the minimum age to 18 in a country where half of girls end up as child brides.
Women rights campaigners hailed the move as “a great day for Malawian girls” and said the law would help boost development in one of the world’s poorest countries.
But they warned Malawi would not end child marriage without concerted efforts to tackle poverty and end harmful traditional practices like early sexual initiations.
“This law is extremely crucial because child marriage is a big, big problem in our country,"said parliamentarian Jessie Kabwila who helped push for the new legislation.
"The country will for the first time clearly articulate that we are saying ‘No’ to childmarriage.”
Malawi has one of the world’s highest rates of child marriage. Half of girls wed before their 18th birthday and nearly one in eight is married by 15.
Early marriage not only deprives girls of education and opportunities, but also increases the risk of death or serious childbirth injuries if they have babies before their bodies are ready.  Child brides are also at greater risk of domestic and sexual violence.
“This law is very important because of the number of girls who drop out of school because they are going to get married, and because of the high numbers of girls who are dying when they are giving birth,” Kabwila told Thomson Reuters Foundation in a phone interview.
“We cannot talk about development if we have child marriage. Women’s empowerment is a crucial player in development and women cannot be empowered if they are not educated.”

PER-ANDERS PETTERSSON / GETTY IMAGES

He was caught red handed, having killed, “prepared” and eaten nearly all of a victim who he claims was “willing.” A 50-minute long video, recorded while listening

Don’t worry though, he was an ex-cop, just like the one who murdered his daughters, or this child rapist, or regular rapist, or the now ex-cop who beat his infant child, and the list goes on…Oh, and take a look at their charges…