as long as they don’t pester them with those things then let them theorize whatever they want… again it’s annoying but as long as they dont harass the with PHAN!!11!! it’s okay, same with the eye contact, if they want to see it as something romantic they can! what’s the big deal?? as long as they don’t tag it other than with phan then ITS.HARMLESS (2/3)
and lastly… who do you think you are? seriously like… what right do you have to judge or say anything about other people behavior?… being respectful is important too then respect other people views on their ship/jokes as I said AS LONG AS THEY DON’T HARASS THEM WIT IT IT’S HARMLESS! I think the only point I agree is don’t tag phan shit on their official tags (3/3)
i realize that some of the things in that post were nit picky, and probably more just annoying than problematic, like you said. for example, bi erasure is a lot more important than making delia smith jokes, i get that. and newer members of the phandom probably dont get that those jokes are overused, like i said, so im not saying every single one of those things is a deadly sin. and i’m not trying to control how other people behave, nor am I trying to make people feel awful for doing those things. i’m just saying that a lot of that behavior is immature and we, as the community that supports dan and phil, can do better. and the only way to fix problems are to talk about them. if you don’t see any problems, then that’s your opinion and I respect that. but I do - and the only way to fix problems are to talk about them.