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I’ve been there, I know exactly what you’re going through. I’m not sure I can be much help, but you have to listen to me. I’m serious, drop whatever you’re doing, and listen to me.

You said it yourself, right there. You miss the person he used to be. He’s not that person anymore. He changed. And he left you behind. I don’t give a shit how long ago this happens, it hurts just the same. Time can’t heal everything, I’m sorry. It really can’t heal everything. It can help, but do you know what can heal you? You. You can heal you. There is absolutely nothing you can’t do, believe me. You want to move on? Move on. Honestly, look at yourself. You want to move on. You know have to. You know you need to forget about this asshole. He forgot about you, remember? So go to bed tonight, and don’t think about him. I know it sounds absolutely crazy, but it takes another person to tell you that yes, you CAN do it. You can move on. You can forget about him. You can feel for other people again. I mean it, you can do this. You have my full support, and all of my love. You’re not heartbroken. You just need to tell your hear that it’s going to be okay. I know that probably sounds like a bullshit cliche thing, but I’m serious. You have to let yourself heal, and the only way to do that is to tell yourself it’s okay to move on. Move on, because he already has.

When you’re lonely, be your own friend. Or, read this. Make new friends, even if you make a fool of yourself. The more you find out about yourself, the more outgoing you’ll be. The only way to be more outgoing is to find out who you are, and in order to find out who you are, you have to put yourself out there. Hell, you might just find out who you want. In the end, you might even find that you want to change yourself. You can always change yourself, never forget that. You honestly have the power to do whatever you want. When you’re lonely, just tell yourself that you’re not. You still have friends, and you still have the power to make new ones. You can be your own friend, take pride in who you are and what you’ve become, what you’ve been through. You know what you need to do to be happy, and please realize you have the potential to be everything you want to be. You can do anything you put your mind and heart to, I promise.