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    Let's talk about racism

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    So. As some of you know, I co-facilitate a monthly feminist discussion group here in London. At our last meeting, one of our members suggested we focus our June discussion on racism and white privilege, and I thought it was a brilliant idea.

    But here’s the thing. The majority of our group, as it stands, is white. And what at first seemed like a great idea for a challenging conversation now seems ripe with the potential for clueless white person-ness.

    At the same time, I also feel like white people not discussing race is a bit of a cop out. A way of fencing off a huge and important political issue as something that is relevant only to “other” people (people of colour, and other, more racist whites). One of the things I love about the concept of white privilege is that it drags white people back into the conversation, serving as a reminder that a) they/we have a race, and b) whether you like it not, race and racism are issues that affect us all.

    Ideally, I’d like the conversation to get our members engaging deeply and honestly with their experiences of race – whether as beneficiaries of white privilege/invisibility, victims of racism, or someone who has occupied both positions at different points in their lives.

    The question is, how do you do this well? Without people clamming up, and deferring to one another (and thus denying their own engagement with race) and without tokenising anyone, or pushing our POC members into the unwilling role of teacher?

    Thoughts?

    And do you agree with my premise above: that the discomfort many white people seem to feel when it comes to discussing racism is a manifestation of white privilege in and of itself?

    Photo via. And the Avenue Q song it references.

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      fuckingrapeculture:

      survivorrat:

      Top: Parents really do love you and care for you deeply.

      Bottom: That does not mean they are not emotionally abusive.

      I know they really do love me and are just trying to raise me the way THEY think is right, but the things they say and do are often still harmful.

      This is really really important. You can appreciate things your parents have done, while still acknowledging that they maybe harmful for you in some ways, and some things they teach you should not be learned. 

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        Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.
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              Christina Milne, leader of the Australian Greens, speaks out against the excising of the Australian mainland from the migration zone. 

              “Not one of you who votes against this amendment, not one of you, in 10, 15, 20 years, when there is a national apology to the children detained indefinitely in detention for the sole supposed crime of seeking a better life in our country because they’re running away from persecution with their families… not one of you will be able to stand up and say ‘oh we didn’t know’, ‘oh it was the culture of the period’, ‘oh it was the best way we thought of saving their lives’ by locking them up in detention in places which the UNHCR has said is completely unsuitable.”

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                kekkes:

                Someone left this on the table I went to go eat at so I took it and true

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                  • Me - I have clinical depression, and been dealing with it for years
                  • People without depression - Have you tried taking a walk?
                  • People without depression - Have you tried taking a deep breath?
                  • People without depression - Have you tried not being depressed?
                  • People without depression - wow you should really work on that
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                    Some people seem to think that it's petty or unimportant to point out racist celebrity misbehaviour because there are 'bigger issues' at play when it comes to racism, ie 'there's worse racism out there.'You should understand that normalising the casual mockery of people of colour through accepted mainstream culture - structurally preserving a white majority's right to have fun at someone else's expense - is a key building block in maintaining the hierarchy of racism. It's naive to write off this kind of seemingly banal, pervasive everyday behaviour as if it somehow has no connection to people ultimately accepting actual systemic violence like the NT Intervention, the War on Terror, our refugee policy, and Australia's straight up unwillingness to question our role in the wholesale dispossession of Aboriginal people.
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