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    But most of all, stop thinking that what people so loathingly refer to as the “friendzone” is some sort of purgatory women put “nice guys” into. My friendship is not a crappy consolation prize that you’re left with if I deny you a sexual relationship– and my body is not your reward for good behavior.
    Taylor Callobre, The “Good Guy” Myth   (via housewifeswag)
     
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    I am driven by two main philosophies, know more about the world than I knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others. You’d be surprised how far that gets you.
    Neil deGrasse Tyson (via crookedindifference)
     
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    Let me talk to you about books.

    Specifically, one book. This book.

    This book should be a best seller. This book should be required reading for graduating from high school. Before you get that diploma, you read this book.

    This book deals with debunking “Neurosexism,” which is a very fancy term for all of that evolutionary psychology bullshit that people spill about those “brain differences” between boys and girls.

    This book debunks such myths as:

    • Boys are better at math than girls
    • Women make crappy lawyers/business CEOs/etc, as their brains are not cut out for aggression.
    • Men make crappy counselors/primary school teachers/primary parents/etc, as their brains are not cut out for empathy.
    • MEN ARE BUILT FOR GOING OUT AND HUNTING WHILE WOMEN ARE BUILT FOR STAYING HOME AND BABYMAKING IT’S NOT SEXISM IT’S JUST BIOLOGY
    • And many other such myths.

    Furthermore, this book covers topics such as: 

    • Neurosexism and gender perceptions in multiple races (as this is not a singularly white experience, just as the western world isn’t a singularly white experience)
    • Sex discrimination in the workplace, and how women are (or, more often, are not) allowed to behave
    • How science is used (badly) to support many of these claims
    • Experiences of trans* people, both through interviews and empirical studies.

    AND FINALLY - It is all brilliantly researched, cited, compiled - and it’s easy to read! Cordelia Fine actually manages to be funny while writing this, which I think is important, because it makes all of this information infinitely accessible.

    Delusions of Gender has reinforced what Oberlin taught me: The gender binary is stupid and arbitrary, and dangerous. And it is a self-perpetuating bias that needs to be addressed to be overcome.

    would like to read. very much.


    note to self

     
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    a haiku (for my lover).

    the sex is good but

    i stay for the quiet times

    and easy laughter.

     
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    The First Kiss.

    The first kiss:
    Rigid, cool and laced
    With the experience of cumin—
    Tentative and cautious—
    A shielded enticement of spice,
    Subtle, deniable quiver.

    Not unlike
    An unsullied rose blossom,
    Whose tender lips, pursed,
    Protrude upward and longing,
    Sheathed in gracious armor,
    Misted in betraying dew.

    Wisely, she awaits
    A commitment of warmth
    And tenderness—
    A nurturing compassion
    To unfold her beauty
    To comfort her secrets.

     
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    فَاصْبِرْ صَبْرًا جَمِيلًا

    Endure all adversity with beautiful patience.

     
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    printed-ink:

    - Margaret Atwood

     
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