On being a homophobe...
I was raised in a deeply-religious setting with the belief that homosexuality is sin. However, homophobia has been deeply entrenched in the Black community for… ever. The down-low man wouldn’t be as prominent if Black men weren’t masquerading as straight men with wives and girlfriends, while getting dicked down outside of prison.
As fun of an experience it can be, high school is probably the most shameless experience a human being’s life. Either you’re one of the select few creating the status quo or the many who follow the status quo. Unfortunately, there are many who also suffer because of the status quo.
I know I’ve called enough dudes faggots or questioned their sexuality or said they were going to hell.
That’s easy when you don’t really know or understand the choices people make. Or you don’t know people. I never had any gay friends, so it was easy to proclaim all gays and lesbians were headed to hell, while ignoring the straight killers, robbers, liars and cheaters.
And then, right after we graduated from high school, one of my closest friends came out of the closet. It’s not as easy to torture your best friend. Going away to college, meeting members of the LGBT community, being in Atlanta, put faces on the people I had condemned to hell.
The mirror was turned on me. These people were genuinely good people who lived honorable and lawful lives, I have a better chance of going to heaven because I like vagina?
I’m still religious. I believe Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. And as my Lord, I follow his life of loving all. I no longer want to spit church doctrine, when some of the lives in church are even more twisted. The Holy Spirit will deal with whatever is going on in your life. God is the only one who can judge any of us.
I’m glad I finally grew up and got a clue.